Blind Sighted

Not to put anyone down or assit with anyone's already lowered self-esteem but ever see someone walking around like they are the hottest thing alive when in reality, they look the complete opposite? Living in Mount Vernon, but being a Bronx Baller, I see alot of that daily. I mean, it almost makes you wonder why don't they see what you see. I always questioned that in my head. Is everyone born thinking that they look attractive or will always look good in general.?Is this a biologic make up that everyone is programmed with that makes them believe that they are attractive? If so, why are some of those who are the ones with low self-esteem and those who clearly are not the most boastful. For example, I had a friend I grew up with who I believe was not "Fat" but full figured and could dress her ass of but liked to question herself in how she looked. Then about 2 weeks ago at school, I saw a big girl in grey leggings whose ass mimicked every crator the moon has. She looked at herself in the mirror that morning and said I look damn good while my friend who looks great partially thought she didn't. So what is the explanation? What causes someone to question who they are and how they look and what causes the others to not?

I'm not shallow or anything but just blunt about what I'm seeing in the world. I'm saying things that people are thinking and are probably chuckling to themselves this very moment. But although we are thinking the same thing, I bet we haven't come up with an answer yet, have we? I personally think that everyone should have half and half or just be totally realistic with themselves. I know there are times when I think I look like I'm the business and then recheck myself only realizing that I'm doing too much. I mean if I can be real with myself, why can't other people. Just be honest and stop doing too much. It's a turn off. Yes females, you can turn me off too. Don't judge me.

This goes for the guys too. Except in your case, you go too hard rather where we do it for confidence, you do it and become arrogant. I've met some arrogant men who believe that they are hot shit and just end up being a hot mess. So everyone, the moral is just be yourself. Don't be someone else and just do it to make yourselves happy not others. And please, please ladies be cautious of those leggings. If you're going to let your dimples show, then smile. Don't do it by putting on something that wasn't meant for your body. Not everything is made for everyone. And no, one size does not fit all. That goes for the skinny asses too. If you are a 6, do not wear a 2. If you are a 34 b, what are you doing with a 36 c bra. He will be disappointed when he takes it off. Lets just be real. If you think I'm easily influenced, you're easily mistaken.

- True Tales of Toni